The devil wears Prada as the famous movie states. Rumors say that popes wear Prada, too. But is it true?
The old rumor stated that pope Benedict XVI wore Prada shoes. Rumors fueled gossip. People talked and discussed that at great lengths. However, it turned out that the rumor was fake. No matter how great the pope bright red leather slippers looked, they were not Prada’s. In fact, the pope’s cobbler made them.
The different popes have different twists on the color of their slippers/shoes. Let’s see the recent history of papal shoes.
Pope John Paul II
He wasn’t much concerned about his shoes up until he fell ill in 2002. His cobbler Adriano Stefaneli undertook the task to make the pope at least a bit more comfortable. And then made a business out of the task. He designed the famous red papal shoes we are so much addicted to seeing adorning the pope’s feet. The bright red slippers are made of the finest nappa leather. They are made for walking and are quite comfortable. After all the elderly Holy Father has to walk a lot. The think pope John Paul II changed was the color – he opted for the simple brown instead of the ruby red.
Pope Benedict XVI
The pope who fueled the rumors actually was the one to turn back to the old tradition of wearing red slippers. Stefanelly jumped on the opportunity and presented the pope with a fine shoe creation – ruby red slippers for his public audience in Sept 2005. Those were the unfortunate slippers that fueled the prada/devil rumors.
It looks like Stefanelly’s slippers were extremely comfortable. The holy fathers are men of age, usually with many ailments and conditions, but have to walk on hard surfaces most of the time. That reason prompted the businessman to make proper slippers for hardwood floors and hard tiles that will alleviate the pain in the feet and prevent slipping.
Pope Francis I
The current leader of the Catholic Church is a strong advocate for the poor. He wore plain black shoes on his very first papal mess. His passion to simple life might have cut the strong connections the shoemaker had with the popes. Who makes the papal footwear remains a mystery. His shoes are not stunning or breathtaking. No longer anyone speculates about fashion brands and ultra-expensive footwear. The holy father has eyes for the simplest of things and prefers more ordinary soles.
Forgiveness is something which many adults find nearly impossible to do. This is a relevant issue even among devoted Catholics. The problem with the ability to forgive can begin in early childhood, which is why it is essential to do our best to teach our children, or any children we are responsible for to learn how to forgive. Here are the steps you should take if you want to help your kids learn how to embrace the idea of forgiveness so that they can grow up being more compassionate and understanding:
Make sure you take the time to explain what exactly forgiveness means and what it is definitely not. Make it clear that being a person who is able to forgive someone does not mean that this person is weak or is giving up on their pride and rights to fight against unjust and wrongful treatment. Also, let the child understand that forgiving doesn’t mean just forgetting what happened with a blink of the eye, nor is it a form of retaliation for someone hurting another. It is essential that children come to understand that forgiveness is an entire process and how long it takes and the course it takes depends on the specific circumstances.
Explain what “turning the other cheek” stands for. Children need to comprehend that this key phrase for all Catholics means that we should not return evil for evil, and yet does not mean that we should allow others to abuse us either. Kids should be taught that the proper way to respond to somebody who is physically or emotionally hurting them is to walk away and avoiding them rather than “hitting” them back – physically or verbally.
Teach children how to properly respond in dangerous or bad situations. They need to adopt non-sinful ways to respond when they are in a dangerous situation or are being wronged. You can easily play out various scenarios with the children so that you show them that it is perfectly acceptable to walk away or stick up for themselves in certain situations. Also, make sure that the children understand that it is alright to call out someone for their wrongful behavior as well as talk to their parents or to a trusted adult about such issues.
Help your children learn how important praying really is. Encourage them to draft their own prayer for forgiveness to God, or teach them a forgiveness prayer for children which can be found in various books for forgiveness
Setting a personal example as a forgiving adult is probably the best way to teach a child how to become a forgiving person as well. Make sure that you do not set a bad example by arguing with others, holding grudges or speaking ill of others because children tend to adopt this kind of behavior pretty fast.
Children in secondary school are well aware of the rewards and punishment based educational system. They will get a sticker for doing their homework and will be sent home with a note to their parents if they have failed to complete it.
This system for rewarding good behavior and task completion and punishing bad behavior or failure to complete a task has been used in the education system for ages for motivating students.
Actually, there is another way to help motivate students by teaching them how to develop intrinsic motivation, or in other words to be motivated from within rather than from rewards and punishments. This type of motivation where the student actually feels motivated from within to learn or behave properly can be stronger than the motivation which stems from fear of being punished or striving for rewards.